I have heard many ladies use these words and i really want some ladies to clear the air on this matter.
Its amazing that some ladies
juxtapose staying with a struggling guy with doing him a favour and I tend to wonder why this is so. I believe that a lady should be with a man because she wants to regardless of whether he eventually hit it big In life.
I once dated a lady and each time i gave her what i can afford she will quickly say"im struggling with you now o and nobody is seeing it" and i try hard to remember if we went out together to hustle.
So the question is;when a lady says "i was there for him when he had nothing" please what exactly does she mean?
1..Does it mean she stood by him by actively contributing to his life by bringing him food or food stuffs,by giving him her money or helping him in one way or the other materially or monetarily?
or
2.Does she mean she remained his bae when he was struggling and suffered with him by drinking the little garri he managed to buy with the little stipends he gets or because she usually collects the little he gives to her from the very little money he fortunately makes from his hustle.
Please ladies i really need to know your definition of being there for a man in times of struggles
Over to you ladies.
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Nairalang:source
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